Eczema Treatment Care

In April i had someone accuse me of giving them Genital Herpes the day after we slept together ( used condoms!!) . Which is a rediculous accusation, but i was tested anyway, and was negative.

In June I had experienced what turned out to be Mono. I only know this because the guy i was dating at the time, got sick 2 days after i did, with the exact same symptoms, and he went right to the Doctor and was blood tested positive for Mono.
I discovered a growing bump in my vaginal area that turned out to be what the doctor said was “Folliculitis” basically a boil under the skin . She strongly believed it was NOT herpes, and that i can get tested if i want. I was tested for it again, and it was negative.

Let me just say i have Eczema and contact dermatitis since i was born, so when i usually see bumps and rashes, it’s a normal everyday thing.

This Herpes thing was almost completely put to rest until i received a ‘cold sore’ on my lip, and noticed a bump on the side of my vagina, at the same time. I’m not sure if that’s possible, or maybe i am imaging things. My mom and her side of the family all gets cold sores on the lips, because 40 years ago, no one knew they were contagious. But now i am Constantly checking down below with a mirror, and constantly looking at my lips. i mean i do have pimples on my chin, and always have.

I recently noticed a week later that my salivary gland under my chin is hard and enlarged.
i am constantly Googling and looking at pictures and my friend is a med student and she says i may be psychosematic. Could it have something to do with being accused i had it? I don’t know. Negative Tests, and Scoffing Doctors, i just feel bastardized.

Any helpful Thoughts?